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Casey Bottono's avatar

Dear Aundi,

Thank you so much for reminding me of this truth.

My spiritual life has become unrecognisable in the ongoing aftermath of Steve's absence.

May all beings know peace....

I appreciate the breath prayer.

Take care,

Casey

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

It's my honor to remind you, Casey. Sending you so much love as you continue. 💛

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Linda Stoll's avatar

Dear Aundi, I am so delighted you're now on Substack. It's an honor (and so easy!) to share your work with those in my world. Your gentle, healing words are needed more than ever. Thank you for your kind and wise ministry.

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

Wholeheartedly receiving your words, Linda. Thank you.

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Aimee's avatar

Beautiful, as always. 🤍

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

Thank you! 💛💛💛

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Jenn Zatopek's avatar

I love your writing, Aundi, especially the call to grief as a sacred invitation. It's like a breath of fresh air. I actually just joined Mirabai Starr's Holy Lament community and this essay resonates.

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

I love that, Jenn! Thank you for the encouragement. Yes, I'm always amazed at the layers behind the invitation of grief; such necessary work. Thanks for saying hi :)

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Not just A Chaplain's avatar

Thanks for sharing. Your work is very inspiring and very much appreciated!

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

I'm honored by your words--thank you!

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Valerie Endicott's avatar

Thank you so very much for these words. I needed the beauty and grace of them.

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

I'm grateful to hear they resonated, Valerie!

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Darlene Marzouk's avatar

Exactly the words needed!!!

Thank you for crafting them for all of us

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

It's my pleasure, Darlene. Thanks for the encouragement.

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Tammy Kennington's avatar

It’s wonderful to find you on this platform and share your healing words. Our world needs the salve of Jesus.

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

Thanks so much, Tammy. Glad you're here.

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Samridhi's avatar

I’d really want to encourage you to read my piece on grief as well;

https://open.substack.com/pub/samridhiarora/p/the-cracked-vessel?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

Thank you ❤️

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

It's a beautiful piece. Sending you love today.

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Sandy Smith's avatar

In just a few hours I have heard or seen the words grief and sacred (or grief and holy) tied together three times. First in an online support group for parents who have lost children. Second in a special podcast from Dr. Lee Warren released on Monday because of the flooding and loss of life in Texas. Third—right here. Thank you for using language that makes this truth accessible!

Sacred echoes….

I’m so glad you are on Substack!

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

Sacred echoes. Amen. Thanks for the kind words, Sandy.

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Joanne Spence's avatar

Beautifully said. Thank you for sharing!

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

You're so welcome--thank you for reading!

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Heather Legge's avatar

Thank you for this. My hearts are with all of these families and survivors.

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

Absolutely. What a heartbreaking experience.

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Bob Massey's avatar

Oof. Nouwen should come with a trigger warning. (I joke. Sorta.)

I too just made my second Substack post after finding every excuse not to. Somewhere I read that writers want everyone in the world to read them, except for anyone they know. The post concerned my forthcoming memoir, which I now realize is a kind of prayer steeped in grief. Once, I was a teen virgin evangelical facing an AIDS diagnosis, without insurance, surrounded by evangelicals screaming about the "gay plague." (It's a comedy, obviously.) That was hard. But harder was my invisibility to my parents. I haven't decided if I'm gonna tell my mom this book exists.

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

Thanks for sharing your experience and being here, Bob. Also, yes, to Nouwen :) He gets right to it.

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Dianna's avatar

Dearest Aundi,

Several times a day I recite Jeremiah 15:15.

'You understand, O Lord; remember me and care for me.'

Thank you for your comforting words of truth. So beautifully put it encourages me to keep holding this life lightly. We are travelers in this world, awaiting the most glorious of cities to come.

Take good care,

Dianna

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

What a beautiful verse. Thank you for sharing and being here, Dianna!

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Tricia Thornton's avatar

These words are full of peace, freedom, and empathetic love. Thank you for sharing them! I love that quote by Henri Nouwen. I have used it often in my own work and in my books as well.

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

You're so welcome, Tricia. Yes, it truly is a stunning quote that says so much with so few words.

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Anna Walker's avatar

Beautifully written ❤️

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Aundi Kolber, Therapist+Author's avatar

Thanks, so much Anna!

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